Just4kickz

joined 4 months ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Thank you so much that was exactly the answer I needed. Also need help with pooping.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

And through most of Covid man.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I have mental issues that severely impact memory. I am proud of my conversational level of French given all circumstances in my life. I can say and read most of it, but have a thick accent and trouble with southern accents in France. Northern french is easier for me to hear. There are so many aspects to language. I suggest Paul Taylor on youtube for a little insight.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Can you help me with my car problem too? You did say next

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago

This. And plus, privacy. Would you trust someone phoning you up from another country not speaking the language well enough asking for a medical record with identification they don’t use? Maybe OFII or the social worker who was very close with me could have helped, but the hoops would be not worth the trouble just so I can talk about that one crazy time I was on 500mg of Tercian a night.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

I was exposed? Lol

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

Have you ever learned French? The words bleed together and it is worse in the south. Pouvez-vous repeter is not something they like to hear every 2 seconds. Usually they switch to english because speaking with an accent is offensive. I can read it all day. Not to mention my husband at that time refused to speak in his native tongue with me. And where we worked they were all research scientists who had to learn multiple languages and came from around the world. I was not allowed to go anywhere without him and he confiscated my phone and destroyed it multiple times or said it was stolen. 🤷‍♀️

[–] [email protected] 0 points 4 months ago

I mixed up Portugal with Spain and it was actually created in France. My ex is a reputable french neuroscientist.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I can speak as much as a french 2 year old. Pas beaucoup. A2 certified.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 4 months ago (1 children)

It was tercian! Just popped into my head

[–] [email protected] -4 points 4 months ago (4 children)

It isn’t offered in the USA, only Europe

 

I was hospitalized for schizoaffective disorder and given a high dose of liquid medication every night to knock me out. I can’t remember the name of it but I think it originated in Spain. Google isn’t helping me and probably now thinks I am trying to smuggle drugs into the US. Lol.

 

I work full time as a designer/builder of fixtures for a very large corporation (500+ employees). My work directly affects production. I also work in sales for a large corporation (500+ employees). At the part time job, company B (sales) I and other women were harassed. I have proof, witnesses, all of that. I am being sparing with details but I can answer questions on a case by case basis. I filed with company B’s HR, then my family told me to retain a lawyer. I will be doing an intake tomorrow. In the meantime I filed with the EEOC but I can’t get an appointment yet because they are backlogged. I need that charge to file a lawsuit.

Here is where company A comes in. Early in the year I got covid and was out for a week which I used all my sick time on. I have severe ptsd so I took an unpaid day off after that and was put on disciplinary action. If I miss one more day or am late, I am not eligible for promotion or raise. If I miss two days, I am terminated.

To file with eeoc, I will have to take what I can get. That means I may miss work at company A.

I messaged HR at company A briefly stating I needed to meet to discuss what will happen if I need off for eeoc, lawyers, or court dates.

Meanwhile, company b has given me no hours but did the same to most employees I think to cover their bases. I was not the first to complain about said manager.

If I lose both jobs, what are the chances I can get the maximum 300k for the claim? Is it worth it? What would be a reasonable settlement?

Company A underappreciates me, and discriminates against me for my ptsd. At this point im thinking both. Literally everything I do allows this company (A) to function and is made out of my ideas and creativity. I get problems, not solutions. I’ve been refused promotions multiple times despite having a degree for those jobs. I am not paid fairly at either. 26 an hour. I asked for a raise and they only gave me a cost of living adjustment of 50 cents. Company B pays 16 an hour.

Also, my ptsd is from prolonged abuse in childhood and prolonged abuse at age 29. Physical, verbal, visual, sexual on both accounts. One was convicted and the other is in a foreign country. So least to say I am mentally perturbed by all of this and very triggered. Nightmares about work are now meshed up with my abuse and I am having panic attacks at work.

Any advice would be great.

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