You want beets to organize your music https://beets.io/
You want to use the musicbrainz database
And you want to scrobble your plays to listenbrainz.
You will serve your music however you want. Navidrome is one of the best, you can't go wrong.
Navidrome does not take car eof tagging. You have to make sure your music is tagged properly. You can also use other software for it that uses beets under the hood. Someone shall chime in and suggest the best app for that as beets isn't end user friendly.
I know people who didn't update their browser for ages and use outdated android versions and nothing happened to them.