DeadNinja

LOL.

We pay for 4K, but we don't get more than 720p unless we use some proprietary shit hardware and agree to their super-invasive "privacy policy" - and they expect people to NOT set sail in the high seas? GTFO..

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Basically what the title says - Can my ISP see the exit node of my VPN ? I hope not, because that would be weird, and would defeat the whole purpose of a VPN.

A bit of backstory about why I had this question ( it is slightly long, so is totally okay for the reader to skip this part )

My partner subscribed to a McAfee security suite, that we share (because they had some promotions available or something for multiple devices). It's not the worst thing around - the antivirus part, but it also came with their "McAfee Safe Connect VPN" service, which is infamous for having a super-invasive data logging policy. So I said fuck'em and set out for a better option.

I am more or less tech-literate, but I researched somewhat deeply‌ this time, basically to choose between "Privacy" (like Bruce Wayne - everybody knows who he is and lives in the Wayne Manor, but nobody knows what he does there, or that he has a BatCave underground), and "Anonymity" (Like Batman - everybody knows what he does - kicks ass of bad guys - but nobody really knows who he is, ok except for may be a couple of people) - basically trying to figure out if I needed a VPN at all or not.

I already have DNS-over-HTTPS enabled in all my devices - so that kinda took care of my "privacy" concerns (i.e. a nosy ISP) - although I believe my ISP can see which IP/Domain I am finally connecting to, which kinda sucks.

Apart from my ISP, the other concern was Public Wi-fi. I do work with my device(s) on-the-go a lot, which is why I have reason to ensure safety while connected to Public Wi-fi at Cafes/Restaurants/Airports. The fact that Internet is not just HTTPS - there's telnet/FTP/SMTP/IMAP/POP3/Gopher and other protocols which have their own encryption methods (or not) also led me to the realization that DOH is not a total replacement for VPN. And the ISP can know my destination Domain even if DOH stops them from sniffing or blocking the DNS lookup itself.

In the end, I decided to go with VPN. Not any free ones (because as we all know they suck), and neither any over-promoted ones as well, like Nord or IPVanish (because they suck as well, in a different way). I chose Mullvad, but white labeled as Mozilla VPN. This is because I do use email-forwarding services to a large extent, and Mozilla is providing this combined deal of their email masking service Firefox Relay along with phone masking and VPN for 5 devices, all for a reasonable subscription (I won't say how much because this post is not a promotion for them) - and being a long-time Firefox user (and also being anti-Google for a while), I decided to go with that (and so far all I heard about Mullvad are good things).

So far I am alright with it. Let's see how it goes.

And that concludes my VPN journey story. While I was researching about how much my ISP can see when I connect to a VPN - I found that they can see encrypted traffic to and from my real IP, and that I connected to a "VPN server", and nothing else.

I assume this "VPN Server" that they can see is the "entry node", and not the "exit node" (i.e. my IP as seen by the world) - but never got a clear answer to that - which led me to my original question above.

And thanks for reading this far ! Feel free to share insights.

Here's something that appears slightly unsettling to me these days.

Recently I unsubscribed from a bunch of email-newsletters from Tech sites (which used to end up in my inbox at a regular interval) - and instead switched over to an RSS reader (Feeder from F-Droid), and added the feeds from as many of those Tech sites in my reader as I could.

My whole point for doing this was to ensure that I follow stuff on my own terms - and also I get all the feed in one place (one app) instead of those newsletter emails taking me to their individual Tech Sites.

And in spite of being old school, I always thought RSS to be cool tech, just like Radio!

Some of the tech sites I subscribed for newsletter are Android Authority, Ars Technica, Gizmodo, Digital Trends, Engadget, TechCrunch, TechRadar, PC World, Mashable,.. You get the idea.

What I am noticing is that most of the feeds from these sites are blatantly "Promotional" in nature - e.g.

"The best robot vacuums for hardwood will keep those floors looking spiffy"

"The best home security camera ahead of Prime Day"

"Get a Microsoft Office lifetime license for/an all time low price"

"The best T-Mobile deals of October 2023"

"Best early October Prime day tech deals"

....and don't get me started about ExpressVPN sponsored posts...

Unsurprisingly, I do see that almost all of them carry sponsored/affiliated links.

Seriously ?? I can't focus on just the tech news, and avoid these promotional BS ?

Would love to hear if anyone else experienced this, and any workaround there might be.

Here's something that appears slightly unsettling to me these days.

Recently I unsubscribed from a bunch of email-newsletters from Tech sites (which used to end up in my inbox at a regular interval) - and instead switched over to an RSS reader (Feeder from F-Droid), and added the feeds from as many of those Tech sites in my reader as I could.

My whole point for doing this was to ensure that I follow stuff on my own terms - and also I get all the feed in one place (one app) instead of those newsletter emails taking me to their individual Tech Sites.

And in spite of being old school, I always thought RSS to be cool tech, just like Radio!

Some of the tech sites I subscribed for newsletter are Android Authority, Ars Technica, Gizmodo, Digital Trends, Engadget, TechCrunch, TechRadar, PC World, Mashable,.. You get the idea.

What I am noticing is that most of the feeds from these sites are blatantly "Promotional" in nature - e.g.

• "The best robot vacuums for hardwood will keep those floors looking spiffy"

"The best home security camera ahead of Prime Day"

"Get a Microsoft Office lifetime license for/an all time low price"

"The best T-Mobile deals of October 2023"

"Best early October Prime day tech deals"*

....and don't get me started about ExpressVPN sponsored posts...

Unsurprisingly, I do see that almost all of them carry sponsored/affiliated links.

Seriously ?? I can't focus on just the tech news, and avoid these promotional BS ?

Would love to hear if anyone else experienced this, and any workaround there might be.

Unfortunately I have been living under a rock recently.

Can someone please ELI5 it for me ?