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I don't like being in charge either, but when shit is actively hitting the fan, I'm often the only one willing to do it, and every time I've refused shit just hits the fan even harder so now I just deal with it.

Honestly I've noticed a lot of it is confidence and mannerism. My partner has a friend who's over 6ft and 250lb who got stabbed and mugged within a month of living in our city. I'm a little under six foot, 120lb, and I'm an acute psych nurse specializing in the management of high violence risk patients, and I'm friends with at least a few of the homeless dudes (they make great drinking buddies, they know all the best area gossip).

While most of what I do is just not taking stupid chances, a significant portion over it is just "swagger" and being willing to take charge of a situation and get something done when it needs to be. I suspect it was a compliment because you were asking at the time why you're not as well-liked or approachable as you'd like to be. I often have difficulty making friends because of how much living in that mindset for as long as I have has affected my hypothetical "aura." People know I'm a protector / healer type, but definitely not in a hugger kind of way!

You just needed to finish baking.

If you're male you could actually probably make a looot of money doing bdsm asmr audio porn. Get an OF and just do a few themed ones as samples / grab-n-go purchases, then offer custom scripts; I bet you'd make bank. Maybe spend about $20 for a couple different women with OF to tell you how they actually masturbate (would help to tell them your use-case so they know you actually want the actual dirty deets) then record yourself ASMR style instructing a woman to do those things. Offer to replace "babygirl" or whatever pet name you decide on with women's names for $20-50. Easy $$$.

I believe you because while I am not literally your girlfriend, I am, metaphorically speaking, that girlfriend. I'm also childfree and maybe a dude so I wouldn't say ovaries but I would definitely describe my clitoral erection and natural lubrication in exquisite detail.

Do/did you do a lot of cardio? Runners, bikers, swimmers, etc have the BEST veins (you need em)! - was phlebotomist, now am nurse.

Right now I'm writing dnd tentacle erotica because 1) it's been my on and off WIP for years and 2) I've particularly gotten back to it lately because I'm royally pissed off that the baldur's gate illithid sex scene uses PIV when tentacle cunnilingus is the obvious thing that people who are sexually interested in illithids want to see and I would fucking know.

My other long term WIP is a gender-swapped / femdom pretty woman historical fiction in a 1900s where society evolved matriarchally and that explores how various social classes of men and women would present under that paradigm. (The other one includes similar concepts when they meet the drow).

I'm particularly fascinated in exploring ways in which those gender inequalities would present in (predominantly) negative ways (as any inequality does) such as men being expected to focus on their looks (think birds of paradise) and men being considered disposable in a similar but exaggerated way to how young men in patriarchal societies are sent to war over rich people's squabbles.

I find a lot of femdom porn just makes the women act like men but while wearing corsets and heels and/or "sissifying" the men while I would prefer to explore the ways that a focus on appearances and makeup would be used to enhance / exaggerate a masculine gender presentation. Also I want to write about fucking pretty men.

Oh some people have some absolute upside-down shelves on their legs. (Dunno about you but) especially fat people. A lot of people don't realize how much muscle is under there unless they're big enough to profoundly affect their mobility and that doesn't usually start happening until around like 350+. There's a reason Olympic weightlifters don't look shredded (except them calves). Shredded muscle, especially abs, is almost all for show.

It's actually relatively easy to use vague or general terms. There's a lot of stuff I have to see to understand but if somebody on here told me they couldn't shit I'd be able to guess pretty confidently that they're constipated.

I mean those terms are wildly outdated and I'm using them for comedic effect in this context but yeah that does imply something fucked with your attachment style at some point in childhood.

People say that to us too and I feel similarly. I think there's people who have dogs and then there's ...dog people.