Another option is virtualization.
Separate your sharing server from your remote access server, then have them each connect to a different VPN
This is how I do it.
I have several containers and a couple of VMs running on my one server. My router is also currently virtualized (OpnSense running in a Proxmox VM, works great) and it connects to tailscale and uses subnet routing to allow my LAN devices to be accessed from outside my home without putting them directly on the Internet.
Meanwhile, I have two more VPNs set up for two different sharing servers. All on one physical machine.