Other people might do it, but that doesn't mean that you're not paranoid.
this post was submitted on 16 May 2025
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Yea pretty regularly, especially at night
Depends on the circumstances. If I'm walking on a street or neighborhood someone told me they got mugged on I'll be way more aware and observant than otherwise. Same if I'm walking in nature it's good to look behind regularly to be familiar with how the trail looks both ways so you don't get turned around on the way back or if there are large predators in the area. If I'm walking around my neighborhood I'll be much more selective about when I'm more observant because I know where the poorly lit areas and blind corners are, and more so at 2am than 2pm.
Speaking of mugging, someone snatched a few hundred dollars from my mom when she was about to deposit it in the bank. Happened just a few blocks from my house. Perhaps that was subconciously in the back of my mind.
I don't. I do make sure I'm not in a way of anyone. And I walk on purpose. I do check before opening/getting in the car.
I don't look around like I'm being followed, but I keep my head on a swivel for anything. Wild animal, car out of control, etc. seen enough videos of people getting fucked up by random things.
Not unless I am walking downtown or in an unfamiliar area of my city. I live in a pretty boring suburb of a safe city in Canada. I usually am walking with my very large and loud dog, and mostly in the daytime
I'm a 6'2" guy and people only mess with me if they're intoxicated. I'm always completely aware of my surroundings unless I'm in a crowded place that should be safe (like malls and airports).
All my sketchy encounters were on public transit, so I no longer take it in my city (transit in Denver is THE FUCKING WORST). I've been threatened and followed multiple times by drugged out weirdos, but let me tell you about the two worst incidents: 1) I was jumped and attacked by a random guy at an empty train station, there was nobody around to help or even witness and I ran for my life as he chased me; 2) guy at a bus stop recognized me from my workplace and he followed me on the bus to my girlfriend's place and then on another bus back to my home and he started hanging around outside my workplace hoping to run into me. So yeah most of the time I'm hyper-aware of everything happening around me in public and you're right to be as well.
Can't say I do
I don't worry about it cause I figure I'll sense it if someone is close behind me
I'm a woman, so yeah. Especially while living in America right now.