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I was born with feet in the 1st percentile of the population and they stayed that way even despite getting taller. Now every shoe shopping experience is awkward af.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 hours ago

So I'm not sure if you know this, but in the US the big kids sizes and the adult men's sizes are the same. For example, a men's 5 is the same as a big kid's 5.

Next time you need to use a Brannock device and you're sized out, have them get the one for the kids.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 10 hours ago (10 children)

Why do they measure your feet as an adult? Is that common in the US? I don't think i had my feet measured since I was 15 or so.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 hour ago

—what size?

—three

—... please come this way

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 hours ago

Speak for yourself... I use my Brannock device each morning to check my feet and see if my junk got bigger from the chemicals.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 hours ago

I don't think anybody is asking to measure his feet, but these measurement devices are practically everywhere that shoes are sold, so it's easy to check for yourself.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 7 hours ago

Cause it takes about 30 seconds and makes sure you actually have the right size shoe.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Do your feet hurt after a long day of standing/walking like being at an airport or something?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

Yes they do. But I don't know if it's any worse than a "normal-footed" human's feet.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 hours ago

so do mine, but i'm a woman who's shorter than you with size 20 billion feet

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 hours ago

I wonder if it's a function of total surface area or if it's more about the weight pressing on your ankles...

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 hours ago

I haven't had my feet measured since I was a kid wtf?

[–] [email protected] 44 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (2 children)

As a woman, I think it's stupid that shoes are gendered in the first place. My shoe size is in the realm that exists for both men's and women's shoes. So in shoe stores I can grab the same sneakers from the women's and the men's section. Just sort the damn shoes by size and let people pick the ones they like ffs.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

The first few decades of my life I assumed that there'd been all sorts of important orthopaedic/podiatry research done into the difference between men and women's feet, gaits etc that meant wearing sports shoes sold as "women's" would in some way cause my feet long term harm. Nope, it was bullshit marketing all along.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I wouldn't be surprised if on average women's feet were narrower than men's, but even if that's the case, just make narrow and wide versions of shoes and let people pick the ones that fit their feet. Surely there are men with narrow feet and women with wide feet. It just makes no sense.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I have had to wear shoes 1 (or .5 depending upon the model) number larger due to wide fronts.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

I recently learned that there's a size rating for width. It goes from A to E, and says something about the length/width ratio of the shoe. Made my previous shoes a lot easier to buy (I also struggle to find wide enough shoes).

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

Goes further than that, my feet are technically 11EEEEEE but I usually have to get a 12EE since basically no one in the world makes 6E if not custom made.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Not just shoes, all clothes. We can come up with better terms, like tapered or straight line. Whatever would be most descriptive. It’s ridiculous.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago

To be fair, I don't think it's "ridiculous" to sort e.g. jeans into the broad categories of "typically wider or slipper hips/thighs compared to length" or t-shirts into "typically broader back vs. typically larger chest".

The mens/women's categories are probably the coarsest categories that makes sense, since the average man's and women's body are so different in so many ways.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Shoes must be cheap then lol

[–] [email protected] 9 points 9 hours ago (3 children)

That's what I was going to say. Kids shoes are cheaper.

I'm 5'10" with a size 14 shoe, and it's frustrating because they stop making half sizes above 12 which means it's often difficult to find a good fitting shoe. I also have a 6'5" wingspan so shirts always either have too short of sleeves, or they are way too long on the torso.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 hours ago

I HATE that about having big feet, I'm on my feet all day and it doesn't matter if I go up one or down, my feet are going to hurt, just in different ways.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I also assume that kids shoes don't last as long, though. There is no reason to build them to last.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

I can 100% attest to this. Kids shoes are cheap because they're cheap.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 hours ago

Yeah that makes sense, I doubt they're designed to handle the weight of a grown man, even a fit one.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 hours ago

Damn that sucks. You need a dedicated clothes manufacturer lol

[–] [email protected] 10 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

Get me a small man’s foot-suit, please.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 hours ago

I get the reference!

[–] [email protected] 8 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Be careful what you wish for. Small feet on a man mean you'll be sentenced to a life of small dick jokes. Which is certainly not the worst thing in the world but it isn't great.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 13 hours ago

My message was a tenuous reference to Flight of the Conchords (New Zealand's fourth most popular folk-comedy duo). So it’s understandable that it was misunderstood, however, I did appreciate your thoughtful response.

Here’s the song if you need a laugh: https://youtu.be/yjfSZu246zE

[–] [email protected] 4 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Do you happen to sprain your ankles often? Just wondered if it felt like you were less balanced than other similarly sized men or did your brain just adjust and accommodate for the lack of leverage naturally subconsciously?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 14 hours ago

I have sprained my ankles in the past but not since I was a teenager...maybe adjusting to my growth spurt when I was still wearing size 1s haha. Now I'm fine I guess I have adjusted. Of course, I've never been normal-footed so don't have a point of reference but yeah I'm not falling over myself like a newborn fawn as you may think.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 19 hours ago (3 children)

Well? Is what they say about big feet true of the inverse?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 13 hours ago

Yes. Small socks.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 21 hours ago (5 children)

Skinny 5'3 guy here. I've had that experience buying pants. "Maybe you'll find something in the kids' section".

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 hours ago

Went out with my cousin who is 5' 4". He buys pants at the kid section.

I tried to poke fun at him and this short king eviscerated me how I had to pay a "Height tax" since his clothes are durable and cheaper.

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