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[–] [email protected] 44 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

When I was much younger this was an issue because I'd pursue people out of loneliness, not because they were actually a good match. After we'd be together for a few weeks, the loneliness would go away, and then I'd realise that I didn't like them to begin with. Awful to do that to other people, I know.

Worked on it through therapy and overcame this behaviour.