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You're just a kid, how would you know what you want for the rest of your life? (lemmy.world)

submitted 9 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago (11 children)

Luck is something I didn’t consider.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago (8 children)

I doubt waiting makes people any luckier in that respect. In the end, it's a gamble.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago (6 children)

Two reasons to wait:

people in their early 20s are more likely to change dramatically later, so definitely more of a gamble at that age
because it's a gamble, you should already be well prepared for life on your own before doing it; that gives you a solid fallback in case things don't work out

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I think overcomming obstacles growing as people together is an experience and bonding I would have never liked to miss. Going from a broke ass Teenager to now was a wild trip and my wife was there the whole time. She changed and I changed but we never changed apart because we communicated about our inner selves

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

But that's where the gamble is. You changed together and it worked out. Others grow apart through no fault of their own and despite their desire to keep things working, they just don't want the same things anymore. Your and my experience are the lucky ones.

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