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What are some green flags in a partner in your opinion? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 11 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I'll start: if they have hobbies it's a green flag for sure, doubly so if their hobbies are outlets for creativity.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 11 months ago (1 children)

That comes to mind now:

Tries not to argue and start fights but rather tries to understand and cooperate with constructive criticism
Speaks up her mind if something is on the matter that has anything to do with me
Loves cuddling and sex
Enjoys at least some of the things I do and joins in
Shares at least some of the things she does
Offers support when wished for/needed

The same things I either do already or try to do.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago

This is a good list. And a lot more meaningful and effective than "likes the same things I like"