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I tried testing a movie from my home server in plex through firefox and repeatedly got this message, even after reloading.

I knew that they had paywalled the apps on mobile and streaming from outside the network but now they have also blocked watching your own movies through your own hardware.

I do get the point that making software should be able to sustain people but I dont see the move of plex as a fair thing to do. Yes, they have made great software but taking your home server hostage feels like the wrong move.

Even a pop up that says "we need you to donate please" would have been fine. make it pop up before every movie, play donation ads before any movie but straight up disabling the app is kinda cruel.

Anyway, i have switched to jellyfin and it is insanely good. please give it a try. you can run it alongside plex with not issues (at least i had none) and compare the two.

In any case, good luck. Let me know if you need help.

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[–] [email protected] 138 points 19 hours ago (3 children)

Jellyfin is great, but in defense of Plex, they announced that remote streaming would require one of the two parties to have a Plex pass was coming back in March so I don't know if it's fair to say they are holding anything hostage.

[–] [email protected] 56 points 19 hours ago (3 children)

I started down the Jellyfin path after they made that announcement. It's super easy to install, and in many ways the UI is nicer than Plex. But I ran into challenges getting my server safely accessible for users outside my LAN. And I haven't had the time to look into that further.

Would be great if there was a clean, easy way to set up the webserver portion so it's as easy to share content entirely as Plex. But I get they are a volunteer project with a lot on their plate.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

I have had great success with tailscale in this regard.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 15 hours ago (5 children)

The same tailscale that announced last week that they are going to start charging?

https://tailscale.com/kb/1251/pricing-faq

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

announced

What announcement? There's been a new Personal Plus plan around for several months already - introduced without much fanfare, and simply brings the user count from 3 to 6 for a fixed small fee. Presumably this is due to feedback from personal users wanting to contribute something other than nothing.

Where do you see the free Personal plan has changed at all?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 hours ago

It's kinda the same as it was before, as far as I can see, for the personal plan. Looks like they've just added more the ability to add more than 3 users for a fee.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (1 children)

Took a quick look at the free tier,

  • 3 users
  • 100 devices
  • Basically all tailscale features

That seems pretty reasonable to me. Main account and two accounts to share. With just friends and family, I doubt most people will reach the 100 device limit.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

Creating a tailnet using a custom domain is considered for business use.

Well, that sucks for me. I was planning on using my domain name.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

custom domain

From what I gather, this refers to the email address you sign up with.

If you use something like a non-gmail email address when signing up, it starts you off on the business plan with a trial (which you can instantly change to free). (Note: they're gonna change this auto-detection thing with shared domains soon due to a security hole.)

I believe you can still use a custom domain (instead of the randomised *.ts.net provided one) with DNS lookups in your tailnet, on the personal (free) plan.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

The tailnet domain doesn't really matter that much if you have your own. I just use tailscale IP for everything that's not in adgaurs with a host name already

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 hours ago

Or even just use the tailnet domain you can generate.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 13 hours ago

I’m willing to recommend Tailscale because I run headscale and it does basically everything a selfhoster needs. When the free version is passable, it’s harder to enshitify the commercial version.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 14 hours ago

Says personal is still free? Not seeing what you’re saying

[–] [email protected] 6 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

That’s great until you try and get it working on your <insert person here that doesn’t live with you>’s TV via their streaming device.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

My mom's tv surprisingly has WireGuard so I set that up for her.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Out of curiosity, what TV and what OS?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 minutes ago

TCL with Google IIRC

[–] [email protected] 6 points 15 hours ago (3 children)

But I ran into challenges getting my server safely accessible for users outside my LAN

FWIW:

  1. vps + domain (optional?)
  2. connect vps to home server with wireguard (eg Tailscale)
  3. reverse proxy on the VPS forwarding to jellyfin (eg Caddy)

Obviously not as trivial or seamless as Plex. Also I wouldn't try to complicate this setup by using docker for everything. But once its up you can basically host whatever you want on the WAN from your LAN.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 16 minutes ago

What added security do you get by using a VPS besides obscuring your home IP? I can definitely see benifits to not leaking your home address, but otherwise the reverse proxy and wireguard tunnels don't actually add any increased security for the extra steps. You could just host a reverse proxy at home, and any flaws Jellyfin could have in their app would still be exposed.

I'm not knocking your solution, I'm just in a similar place and considering if I want to go through the extra hurdle for a VPS if I don't need one.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 hours ago

So an additional 10 bucks a month….

[–] [email protected] 3 points 14 hours ago

Awesome, thanks for the tips!

[–] [email protected] 12 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

The safe usage outside of my network has always been a sticking point as well. I run it locally but my Plex server is in used by several of my family and friends, as well as my wife who is not as tech savvy, so having her run jellyfin on everything is really not fair. Especially when we have young children. She doesn’t really have time to troubleshoot, she needs things to kind of work on command.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

If they’re calling it remote streaming when you’re on the same (local) network, that’s not exactly intuitive. I’d say OP’s phrasing was fair.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

OP has a misconfigured server and isn't connecting to their server over LAN.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (1 children)

Just because the destination IP address is not a LAN address? That's not misconfiguration, that's a legitimate use of NAT reflection/loopback. If that's how it determines who is streaming remotely then just run it behind nginx that forgets to set the correct headers.

Edit: Apparently Plex centrally relays all the traffic? Self-hosted my 🍑, it's not self-hosted if you need to rely on their server.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 hours ago

It doesn't relay all traffic, that's a fallback if a connection can't be established.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

But I keep hearing the value of Plex is that anyone can use it.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Yes anyone can use it even people who don't know how to configure their server

[–] [email protected] 6 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

The OP might disagree from what I'm seeing.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

OP is also in the allegedly ultra rare camp of “successfully configured Jellyfin and lived to tell the tale.” Not what I’d expect of someone unable to configure Plex correctly. I’ve not set up a Plex server myself but my guess is it wasn’t clear that it was misconfigured - it did work previously, after all.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 hours ago

I can't speak for OP, but I self host lots of stuff, have literally dozens of services running, have an Ansible repo to manage it all and routi some stuff through a VPS, not to mention my day job has included managing services in one way or another for a long while. This is to say, I know what I'm doing. I couldn't setup Plex to work the way I wanted to, they expect it to run in a docker with network set to host mode, I couldn't find any way to tell Plex that my living room TV was in the same network, it just wouldn't accept any connections as local. I know I shot myself in the foot here by not letting it run with network on host mode, but I shouldn't have to, the port was exposed, I could reach it through the local network IP, but I wasn't able to stream any content locally.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Well, with Plex constantly changing allowed abilities and such, it seems to me that this is the expected outcome.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 12 hours ago

This is one change (which isn't the cause of OP's problem) that they announced months ago. I've been using it for well over a decade and while I have had major issues with it in the past going so far as to setup Emby and buying a lifetime license for that, I would hardly say that they're "constantly changing allowed abilities."

Most people's issue with them is that they focus too much on adding new stuff that nobody asked for while ignoring longtime bugs. I can't recall a time they've ever locked anything behind a paywall that wasn't a brand new feature prior to this.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah, there is no defence on enshittification, sorry. I have jellyfin now. Its also not remote which makes this a huge dick move too.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Wait its not remote? You're on your local network?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

OP has set it up wrong so it’s ALL going remote, even when he’s in the same house.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

I have it set up in a way. That does not make it wrong. This is an option that plex gives you without warning so its their problem in the first place. They also just paywalled that feature that worked for years and they're not considering the consequences or they dont care. The least they could have done is put a link "if youre seeing this on your home network, you need to do THIS."

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

You set it up in the wrong way if you want to stream locally on your network.

It’s ok to admit that you made a mistake and it’s not plex’s fault. Just take some responsibility for your actions.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

You're now using mental gymnastics to blame me for someone else's actions. Sorry mate but I'm not into that mumbo jumbo. good luck somewhere else.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago

Someone else set up your Plex server?