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I was born with feet in the 1st percentile of the population and they stayed that way even despite getting taller. Now every shoe shopping experience is awkward af.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Where do you live that they don't?

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago (3 children)

In Japan everyone knows their shoe size in centimeters. Those stay the same regardless of gender or whatever other crazy unrelated topic to how big something is.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago

size in centimeters

Measuring like that would be even easier in the US, where the answer would always be simply "one foot".

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (2 children)

It's normal for men to have wider feet, with a wider and longer toebox compared to the length of the foot. Length is only one dimension of several. (Though a lot of people don't think to re-lace* their shoes for arches.)

It's unclear how much of that is upbringing. The toebox length is gendered, but toe and foot width go up wen spending a lot of time barefoot, and toe width goes down in pointed shoes that can eve n make toes 'tuck' and cause bunions.

A women's 9 1/2 double-wide fits me about the same as a plain Men's 7. Women's dress shoes are rarely in wide, and NEVER double-wide. Though I've found success with Aussie brands because going barefoot is normal there and so the shoes are often wider for everyone. We're also seeing the toebox become a more slanted natural foot shape, instead of the weird point symmetrical one.

Bodies can be complicated, and one size/shape isn't for everyone. The way we live and dress absolutely changes the shoes we need, too.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

My most recent shoe purchased was decided because the arc in the shoe perfectly marched my own. Also i do have rather wide feet and did go barefoot a lot as a kid. Funny thing im the only in group that still has arches.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

I recommend re-lacing. Autocorrect changed it to 'replace', but changing how your shoes are laced really helps. I have a very high arch, and found that I didn't actually need much arch support in the shoe itself, I just needed the tongue not to be pushing down on it. It means the shoes now feel tight and secure around my ankle and toe, I don't have to go up a size to fit my arch. Much more comfortable!

Feel like giving it a try?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 15 hours ago

Huh! That's very interesting. I've never thought abou lacing having an impact on fit. I also have high arches and I'm definitely giving this a try. Thanks!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Yes but the number doesn't have to change. Just like in the US, they use letters to denote relative foot wdith vs. the average. No need for multiple numbering schemes.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 13 hours ago

It is more accurate, but for most people it probably makes it more work. If most [Group A] need [Item A], it gets labelled that way so they can be sectioned that way. It probably would be better, especially for more uncommon shapes, to use measurements. But most people don't want to do that for everything, they want an easy answer so they can go home. A lot of women I know have never bothered to get their bra size professionally measured, and that's a readily available service that saves so much literal pain.

Reminds me of mens/womens deoderant. IIRC the real difference is that one is creamier (for body hair) and the other is powdery (for shaved skin). So sometimes men might want women's deoderant or vice versa, and the labelling CAN obfuscate that.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Just like in the US

The letters denoting widths exist, but they’re not used. Very few US shoe brands offer different widths on the same size shoe. Some offer two. A handful three, and now you’re talking about workwear, not trainers or anything else. Generally, US shoe widths are decided by whether it’s a mens or womens model.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (1 children)

My fellow lemming, I worked in a shoe store in the US for two years. I can tell you that yes, in fact, every shoe has an associated letter denoting width along with the number denoting length.

However, unless the width is special it may or may not be printed on the box.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 12 hours ago

I have also worked shoe retail. US household name brands makes single widths for the majority of their available shoes. If you have narrow feet try the equivalent size in the women’s model. If you have wide feet try the men’s options. The lasts are different. I’m aware you can do better than what is available in a standard retail setting. I’m generalizing.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago (2 children)

That would make it a foot measurement, not a shoe size.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

It would except for the fact that shoe sizes here, from babies to adults are only sized in centimetres. If there are international sizes printed on the shoes, they have no meaning to residents in Japan. Check the tag inside your shoes; If they have international sizes printed on them, you'll see Japan's is in centimetres, and may have EE (or more Es) next to it to denote width. If there is nothing, then they are standard width.

Children's clothing is also sized in centimetres. Makes things really simple.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

This is probably gonna blow your mind. But most shoes are worn on feet. Crazy, uh?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

Shoe sizes are Unisex here in in Europe as well as in Asia. And in Asia they are even smarter - they simply use centimeters, while we use "Paris Points" of 2/3s of a centimeter.