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You know that's not what I'm talking about.
then I guess I'm not sure what you're really talking about then.
it goes back to my original point though. if you feel there should be those spaces, no one is stopping you from making them. there were a few subreddits I used to browse (maybe it was mensrights or menslib or something similar) that was super respectful and held genuinely helpful and important conversations about the issues men face. trust me, absolutely no one will stop you from making those spaces. if those spaces you're trying to create aren't respectful, then yes I imagine people might not like that.
I was referring to IRL safe spaces and support groups.
Making men's spaces online specifically has the dual problem of being attacked by both misogynists and radical feminists. It's a lot of work and a lot of hate to deal with, so they don't pop up a lot. But yes, they do exist, there's a semi-active menslib community on lemmy for example. I think that one veers way too heavily into the "us men are really awful aren't we?" feminist takes, personally; the reddit one was a lot better.
Menslib always felt like a containment sub.