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Things in poor neighborhoods are done differently than in middle- and upper- class neighborhoods. People that grow up in poor neighborhoods develop behaviors, customs, and beliefs that are different from other neighborhoods because they are part of surviving in the struggle. When they move on up, some of those behaviors, customs, and beliefs are no longer necessary and can even be harmful (e.g. strong reactions to perceived attacks). Others may actually provide an advantage (e.g. living through power outages). Regardless, these changes can cause a sense of estrangement from their childhood and original culture, leading to some resistance. Given all that:

What did you change and what did you keep?

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (27 children)

"the sticks" doesn't mean poor, it just means in the countryside (at least in the UK). On the estate(s) would be correct for us.

I didn't grow up particularly poor, but became poor upon moving out of the family home. This led to making do with very limited ingredients, finding bargains, and that has stuck with me ever since. I've saved a lot of money down the years, can live very frugally for a period of time when I really need to, and as such became a homeowner because I knew how to knuckle down and avoid unnecessary expenditure, perhaps to the detriment of my health at times.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

“the sticks” doesn’t mean poor

Is there an informal term that would describe poor rural neighborhoods similar to ghetto/barrio?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago (2 children)

My friend grew up in the type of neighborhood you're describing and he calls them "backwoods communities"

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I've never heard this term. We always called them the estate, because usually they were council estates.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Local terms will surely vary, he's from the US east coast

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Then why are you replying in this thread about UK terms? Lol

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

...where did OP ask for UK-specific terms? I didn't say "the estates" was wrong, I answered OP's question in a comment chain that happened to start with a UK terms for poor neighborhoods...

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The OP asked, in this thread, for the UK term that works. Your reply to that question led them to add another US term thinking that you were providing a UK term.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Are we reading the same thread? Nowhere in the comments does OP ask for UK-specific terms. OC said "the sticks" doesn't mean poor (agreed) and mentioned what the UK. OP accepts then asks for a better term and I replied with my anecdote.

"Backwoods" is what my friend calls the poor part of "the sticks" so I believe my reply was relevant

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

We're obviously both interpreting the thread differently and only the OP knows whether they were asking the UK resident for the UK term or whether the OP was asking the UK resident for more US terms.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

So it seems! Oh well, no hard feelings here

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago
[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago

thx! updated the title 🌳🌳🌳

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

Trailer park :/

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