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That's understandable. It's also, in microcosm, the reason your country is so divided. If you want to continue living in a democracy, you're all going to have to talk - and listen - to each other.
I don't disagree at all. However, that is a whole lot easier said than done when one side is so far gone in an alternate reality of lies and hate.
We're going to need a mass cult de-programming or something. I just don't know how we come back from where we are.
What you think about them, they think about you. They're not evil, they're not idiots. If they lived nextdoor you would probably find each other very pleasant.
It looks pretty simple from where I'm standing. You talk to them. You listen to them. You find things you agree on, beginning with the smaller things. They're not automatons, they're people.
Update. This avalanche of supposedly tolerant progressives who are openly against the idea of talking to their fellow citizens proves to me that America deserves everything it gets. Good luck.
"What you think about them, they think about you"
No, this is precisely the issue. Any leftist worth their salt can't fucking stand conservatives and YET we will still protect their basic human rights and accept them into a collective society.
Conservatives on the other hand are perpetrating violence every single day against leftists and minorities they LOUDLY do not accept into a collective society. They deny abortions for women who are on the verge of death, they advocate for draconian health care policy that massively raises the suicide rates of trans kids because they hate trans kids and they believe deep down in their racism with an unshakable fervor that makes their meager spiritual practice of christianity look sad and pathetic in comparison.
It is far past the point of having a debate with rightwing conservatives, what is left is to intimidate them into shutting up, drowning out their voices and laughing at their tiny hateful visions of the universe.
The social fabric of the US is being ripped apart by conservative white men because they can't handle how scary using pronouns is and frankly the solution is to activate everybody else, not humor these people yet again with another discussion they are going to approach in a fundamentally disengenous way.