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[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 month ago (4 children)

I thought I was straight for about 17 years, thinking that also being attracted to men was just something everyone experienced.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Its nice to be allowed to have doubts about it too, without panicking, even though the final conclusion is that yes I consider myself straight. Its definitly not as binary as SOME people claim. And knowing that, I am also learned to be a lot less trusting of peoples world views and "common sense".

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

I saw a quote years ago about "common sense" that really changed the way I thought about it. I wish I could remember now where it came from.

"The problem with common sense is that it is common, not good."

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