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At least on the communities i follow. Every so often I come across a thread where i recognize most of the users there even in the big communities with over 30k members and I haven't even been on lemmy that long.

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 month ago (16 children)

That's very much possible.

That's why I try to be as nice as I can on here.

There are very few times when I initially joined Lemmy where, I admit, I was a bit shitty towards some users (old Reddit habits). This can get you banned, or blocked, or you can build a reputation pretty quickly. And since we're not a lot, that can limit your interactions quite a bit. So I changed my attitude pretty quick. And frankly it's been much more enjoyable this way since.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (9 children)

This is a good way to think about it. I've also been trying my hand at being a bit nicer to tankies. Oops... I mean communists.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 1 month ago (7 children)

I’ve also been trying my hand at being a bit nicer to tankies. Oops… I mean communists.

So, I'm finding things reversed, I spent most of my time on reddit going at it with idiot conservatives, just blasting through their talking points and not being polite at all.

Tankies are different because they ... it's not selfishness, it's not just seeing themselves as the ultimate victim of "evil libruls!", they really believe the world would be better under their fairy tale. It's even different from a lot of religious nutjobs I've met, who can't wait for their God to come back and burn everyone who didn't appreciate how awesome they specifically were, like their dad who worked at the CIA doing Kung-Fu.

Fortunately the tankies have weak arguments, the best of which is "China #1 now!!!".

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

I'll just come out and say it: there is an enormous difference between a communist and a "tanky". For one, only one of those actually believes in communism, and for another one of them is capable of rational discussion without resorting to the "your (sic) stoopid (sp), nuh uh YOU are!" schtick. I have found it more protective of my sanity to block the other type.

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