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I flunked out of nursing school despite the content itself being fairly easy because I didn't know how to deal with mean girl shit yet. I passed the second time by just doing whatever they told me to until I graduated. In particular, I remembered some advice from years earlier from an older roommate who had just gotten back from their coast guard training. They said their goal had been to go as long as possible before the instructor even knew their name. Honestly that's been a pretty great strategy for me when I've needed to escape abuses of power ever since; keep your head down, do whatever they tell you to, don't draw attention to yourself, then book it the first chance you get.
In nursing school right now. Pleased to say I'm having the opposite experience - I'm the guy that's always asking questions, running study groups, and debating the prof after tests to try to get questions thrown out and boost everyone's grade. So... pretty much everyone in the program, student and staff, knew my name and face from day 1... and I've had an awesome relationship so far with all of them.
It's been difficult, but very gratifying and at times even fun.
Your instructors were shit.
No, they were nice like that to the male students. I was female presenting at the time so it was just a fucking tank of piranhas. The sexism for the men doesn't really seem to start until you're working ortho, psych, or ER and everybody starts looking at you like you're a damn hoyer that transforms into a battle mech optimus prime style.
They have a great relationship with the other students too, most of which are women. They're legit decent people - I'm pretty happy with this program.
I do see sexism at work though - I'm a surgical tech, and I've noticed a lot of docs are WAY more forgiving to my fuckups than to my female peers. It's so fucking awkward to be on the receiving end of favoritism. ...and yeah, anytime something needs to be lifted, I'm the mule by default.