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‘It’s not you, it’s me’ is the gist of college student qualms with dating apps. Hook-up culture declines while young people search for genuine connection.

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (7 children)

I remember back in the day if people found out you were on a dating website, you were basically totally ostracized. Then people realized, well shit, if I'm going to be ostracized for looking for love online, I might as well do it on the free website (POF). But POF basically became the "drug addict and single mom machine". Then dating apps came out and it became trendy and cool because you didn't have to actually connect with anyone and you could be aloof and detached and have NSA sex with strangers. Now everyone hates dating apps again. Normalize talking to people about real things in public!

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I remember people would lie about how they met because they didn't want to say they met online. Oh how the times have been-a-changing

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Depending on the context, my partner and I don't like sharing that we met on an app either.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Well, I like to say me and my partner met online, then add it was actually a music sharing site. If I decide to troll a little, I change the last part to "a BDSM forum".

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