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I rode my eScooter to the allergist today, and I got there super snotty/puffy eyed/raspy. Did the allergy test and sure enough, I'm very allergic to basically ever grass, tree, and weed in the known world.

Allergist straight up said, "Well we knew when you got here" and I was like... guess I'm in the right place! Learned some allergies I wasn't aware of, and got some super important advice about how to manage them. So overall a great visit.

Have you ever had a moment of seeing someone at your job and being like "Oh yeah, you're in the right place."

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

My job is hard to explain and has no real terminology for it (which is natural, it is conceptual), which is why you'll see me label it differently depending on when I refer to it, but it's basically the hometown equivalent of how a school might highlight student achievements (and yes, it's highly quasi-official). People come to us often to put it on record that they did something good, an uphill request I might add if society is based on shame. From this position, I've had encounters with a few people who, to put it lightly, if they lived in Japan, they'd be asked to commit a hundred seppukus from the literal atmosphere, often locally ordained, swirling around them. And at least once I was like "this is what I live for", which is also at the same time tragic because what they go through is also the kind of life I live; ironically, for the deed of pointing out the good in these pariahs, on top of that even more shame is accumulated onto me.