qjammer

I recently bought an x86 passive cooled box from Topton, an aliexpress merchant, that was recommended by ServeTheHome, a great youtube channel/blog that reviews all kinds of networking equipment for homelabs. Since it's x86, you can pretty much install anything on it, in my case OPNSense. I recommend you watch some of their videos/read their blogs and see what fits!

The nginx documentation for the ssl preread module has an almost identical example.

I am running a similar setup to yours. The issue is that only one server block can listen to an address+port pair. You ought to do something like this:

map $ssl_preread_server_name $proxy_backend_router {
        serviceA.example.com    upstreamA:12346;
        serviceB.example.com    upstreamB:12346;
        default $ssl_preread_server_name.invalid_proxy:443;
}


server {
        listen 443;
        ssl_preread on;
        proxy_pass $proxy_backend_router;
}